Preparing Emotionally and Mentally for Your Newborn’s Arrival

Awaiting the arrival of your baby can be equal parts exciting and unnerving. Are you ready for the responsibility of this new little life? Getting ready for a newborn is about more than putting together the crib and preparing the nursery. Having a baby is a life-changing experience, and it is important to prepare emotionally and mentally, as much as possible. There is no way for you to predict exactly how you will feel when your baby arrives, but we have some tips to help you get ready.

Learn and Plan as Much as You Can

Especially if this is your first baby, do as much research as possible. Learn everything you can about babies and parenting, so that you can enter this new phase of your life with confidence and clarity. Pay off debt, establish a budget, and try to set aside a financial cushion for any unexpected expenses. Discuss your leave with your employer and work to create a plan for handling your work-life balance. Plan for your home life, too. Talk to your partner about shared responsibilities, and develop a schedule for household tasks and errands. Of course, it is important to be aware that in the haze of having a new baby in the house, many of your best laid plans will fall away. However, having a schedule in place will make it easier to regain your footing. Even if you have children already, or perhaps especially then, think about how you will manage if the baby is fussy or you have trouble with feedings. Consider, too, how you will introduce the baby to his or her siblings, and how you can be best prepared to handle all the children at once. Remember that every baby is different, so even if you have children, what you learned from your other newborn experiences may not apply to the new little one.

Practice Self Care During the Pregnancy and Afterwards

It is normal to feel fatigued, physically and emotionally, when you are pregnant. Set aside some time every day to take care of yourself, napping when you need to, getting some light exercise, and taking care to eat a nutritious diet. Go to bed early, try to keep a consistent schedule, and if you can manage to work in a prenatal massage, do it! Labor is physically, mentally, and emotionally challenging, and you need to shore up your reserves in order to be prepared for the day of the birth and the days that follow. Once the baby is born, continue to be kind to yourself. Recognize that you are going to make some mistakes, and that is to be expected. Cut yourself some slack, and maintain an awareness of your own mental health. Post-partum depression can be debilitating, so pay attention and let someone know if you are beginning to feel low.

Prioritize Your Relationship with Your Partner

Pregnancy is a time of change, and parenting is a massive adjustment. All of this can cause stress in a relationship, as you both try to adjust to your changing life. Now is the time to be kind to and patient with each other, spending time together and talking about your expectations, hopes, and fears. Discuss your ideas about parenting and talk about how you want to raise your children, but also spend time just enjoying each other’s company. Keeping communication flowing freely between you, and take time to nurture your relationship, now and after the baby is born.

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