How to Introduce Your Child to a New Sibling

Introducing a New Sibling

Is there anything more special than the bond between siblings? When siblings have a good relationship, it can result in a lifelong friendship and invaluable support. Get your children’s friendship off to the right start with these tips from Center for Vasectomy Reversal on how to introduce your child to a new sibling.

Getting Ready for Baby

Telling your child about the impending arrival of a sibling should happen well before the baby is born. As a rule of thumb, it is good to tell your older child about the baby as soon as mom begins to show. In some cases, if there is morning sickness that might worry the child, for example, it might be wise to announce the news earlier. If your family is adopting or using a surrogate, it is also wise to start the conversation early. The more time your child has to adjust to the idea, the better. When you talk about the new little brother or sister, talk about the good things about having a new baby, but also let your child know that babies need a lot of help in the beginning. Talk about how much fun it will be to have a younger sibling, without overselling. Talk about what life will be like with a new baby, and help your child feel a sense of ownership when it comes to the new little one. Encourage your child to talk to your baby bump, feel when the baby kicks, and think about what it will mean to be an older sibling. It can be helpful to read age-appropriate books about babies and birth, or look into a sibling birth class at the hospital.

Making Plans for the Birth

If your older child will need to change rooms to make space for the new baby, make sure you make this transition well in advance of the birth. The same applies to any other major transitions, like potty training or moving from a crib to a bed. Make arrangements for your older child’s care while you are in the hospital, but try to arrange a visit with the new baby as quickly as possible, while you are still in the hospital. Let the child meet his or her new sibling with the baby in the bassinet, to avoid any feelings of jealousy because the baby is being held by mom or dad. Consider getting a small gift for your older child “from the baby” to make that first meeting as warm as possible. Manage your expectations about your child’s reaction; some children will be enthusiastic, and others will be unimpressed. Arrange for one parent to spend some special one on one time with your older child right after this first meeting.

The Homecoming

Once you bring the new baby home, you will need to give your older child some assistance in adjusting to the changes. As much as is possible, let the older sibling help care for the new little family member. “Helping” will mean different things, depending on the age of the older child, but you can find something for your child to do, whether it’s entertaining the baby during a diaper change, helping to push the stroller, or helping to dress or bathe the baby. If your child is not interested in helping, do not force it. Remember, bonding is a natural process and will happen gradually. Try to set aside time each day to spend with your older child, but keep the daily routine as normal as possible, including school or daycare if that’s the norm.

Helping to Manage Feelings

Sometimes, children don’t take to being an older sibling easily. Your older child may struggle with his or her new role in the family. Encourage conversation about the new baby, and be patient. If your child acts out or seems to regress, understand that this may be a way of seeking attention. Offer reassurance of your child’s special place in the family. Adjusting to the new normal may take some time, and if you are having trouble helping your child, consider asking your pediatrician for advice.

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At the Center for Vasectomy Reversal, we love helping people start their healthy, happy families. We pride ourselves on helping men improve their fertility through uncompromising, concierge-level patient care. Under the direction of Dr. Joshua Green, our team provides state-of-the-art treatment for men who need a reversal of their vasectomy or have other fertility concerns. To learn more about the work we do or our discounts for active duty military and veterans, contact us through our website or call 941-894-6428.

The Most Popular Halloween Costumes for Kids

Dressing Your Children Up for Halloween

There is something so fun about dressing up your little ones for Halloween! In fact, it is one of the most exciting parts of this spooky holiday for most parents. What kind of costume will you choose this year? Do you prefer spooky ghouls, adorable animals, or classic characters? No matter what you decide, make sure it is something your child loves and feels comfortable wearing. Whether you are buying a costume or creating your own, this is a great chance to get creative and do something memorable. Need some inspiration? Let’s look at some of this year’s most popular Halloween costumes for kids.

Keeping Halloween Safe and Fun

When you are planning for Halloween, be sure to make safety your top priority. Buy from a reputable seller, and only buy costumes that are flame resistant. Steer clear of anything that will drag on the ground or cause a tripping hazard, and opt for face paint instead of masks, for better visibility, being sure to wash off all makeup before bed. Never let children trick or treat without a responsible adult, and use reflective tape to make them more visible if they will be out after dark. Give them flashlights or glow sticks, to help further improve their visibility.

Our Picks, and Some Considerations

Thinking about this year’s costumes, we considered what is trending, but also included some classic costumes that kids will love. If your children are old enough to take the lead in choosing their costumes, let them! Halloween costumes should be fun, reflect the child’s personality and interest, and be safe and comfortable. If your child has sensory issues, make sure to consider that when choosing a costume- make sure nothing is too stiff or itchy. Consider the weather, too. If it is likely to be cold on Halloween, look for a costume that incorporates warm layers or a coat, so that you don’t have to cover it up. You will also want to think about your budget. Costumes can get pricey, but often, with a little bit of creativity, you can DIY something just as adorable.

Costumes for Girls

• Barbie: Is there anything more trendy or more iconic than Barbie? You are sure to find a costume to suit your little girl, or you can DIY a costume with bright pink clothing and accessories.
• Taylor Swift: If you have a little Swiftie in your home, this one may already be a foregone conclusion!
• Coraline: Cute but a little spooky, trendy but classic, this is another one that lends itself to DIY, with a yellow raincoat and boots and a blue wig. Since it’s the 15^th anniversary of the
• Wednesday Addams: The Netflix series has brought her back in a big way, and she’s showing some staying power! There are a few different versions on the market, or you could make your own, with a black dress and white collared shirt underneath.
• Inside Out 2 Characters: You could go with Joy, with her cute green dress and blue pixie cut, but Disgust is the hot costume of the moment, sassy in all green, with green hair, and a pink scarf around her neck for an accent.
• Wonder Woman: This one is a classic, and a great way to make your little girl feel powerful!

Costumes for Boys

• Ken: If you have a Barbie with a brother, you may just want a Ken! This year, the costumes are easy to find. For DIY purposes, brightly colored workout gear will work.
• Football Player: For the little sports fan in your house, choose a costume that mimics his favorite player.
• Beetlejuice: With the new movie in theaters, Beetlejuice is having a resurgence in popularity, so finding a costume with the iconic striped suit is easy.
• Ghostbuster: Another old favorite making a comeback, these costumes are going to be big this year because of the popularity of Frozen Empire.
• Willy Wonka: What kid hasn’t fantasized about owning a magical candy factory? Top hat, cane, velvet jacket, and golden ticket come together to make a great costume.
• Superhero: Take your pick, but think about costumes that don’t involve vision-obscuring masks.

Gender Neutral Costumes

This is an easy category, because there are tons of costumes that can work for boys or girls. Pokémon characters, Minions, Astronauts, Chefs, Aliens, Harry Potter or Bluey characters, and Dinosaurs are all very popular. Talk to your child, and consider a costume that reflects a favorite animal, television show, or hobby.

Start Your Family with Help from Center for Vasectomy Reversal

Of course, family fun like dressing up for Halloween begins with starting a family. At the Center for Vasectomy Reversal, we love helping people start their healthy, happy families, and we pride ourselves on helping men improve their fertility through uncompromising, concierge-level patient care. Under the direction of Dr. Joshua Green, our team provides state-of-the-art treatment for men who need a reversal of their vasectomy or have other fertility concerns. To learn more about the work we do or our discounts for active duty military and veterans, contact us through our website or call 941-894-6428.

Can STIs Affect Male Fertility?

SSIs and Fertility

According to the CDC, approximately one in five Americans have an STI. That number may be a low estimate, as some STIs can stay in the body without presenting any symptoms. Left untreated, STIs can negatively impact the fertility of both men and women, even causing long lasting damage to the reproductive system. Fortunately, most STIs can be successfully treated if they are caught early, which is why regular testing is so important. Here, we look at some of the STIs that can affect male fertility.

Chlamydia

The most curable STI, chlamydia is problematic because most people who contract it do not show symptoms. It affects nearly two million Americans each year and has been proven to cause female infertility if left untreated, by damaging the fallopian tubes. It can also be passed to newborn babies, causing inclusion conjunctivitis during a vaginal birth. The connection with male infertility is less clear cut, but there is evidence to suggest that untreated chlamydia can significantly reduce sperm quality and motility.

Herpes

Herpes is an STI without a cure. Symptoms come and go, but the virus stays in the body forever. There is not much research on how herpes impacts male fertility, though one study found that it may be associated with low sperm count. However, if a man passes herpes to his partner and she becomes pregnant, she can pass it to the baby, and this can have serious consequences. Fortunately, while passing it between partners is common, passing it to the infant is rare.

Gonorrhea

Like chlamydia, gonorrhea often presents no symptoms. Both of these illnesses can cause inflammation in the epididymis, the tube at the back of the testicles responsible for storing and transporting sperm. If caught, this inflammation, known as epididymitis, can be successfully treated with antibiotics. However, cases that are left untreated can result in infertility. Gonorrhea is another STI that can be passed on to newborn babies, and this can lead to blindness. Chlamydia and gonorrhea are two major causes of preventable infertility.

Mycoplasma

This STI is not as well-known as the others, perhaps because it was only discovered in 1981. It presents with symptoms that can be confused with a urinary tract infection, but is often accompanied by epididymitis. It is associated with pelvic inflammatory disease (PID) and infertility in women, and there is evidence to suggest it also impacts male fertility.

Syphilis

Many people mistakenly believe that syphilis is a disease that has been eradicated, but this is, unfortunately, untrue. In fact, between 2018 and 2022, reported cases of syphilis in the United States rose by 80 percent, with the CDC documenting 207,255 total cases in 2022. Often, the symptoms are mild, so they can go undetected, but if left untreated, syphilis can last for years or even decades, causing serious health issues. It can impact male fertility by causing erectile dysfunction and epididymitis, and if the man passes it on to his partner and she becomes pregnant, she is at higher risk of miscarriage. Syphilis can also be passed to the baby, and this can be fatal.

Hepatitis

There are several different types of hepatitis, and hepatitis B is the one most commonly linked to sexual transmission. Hepatitis is an inflammation of the liver, and can cause lower sperm count or mobility, resulting in a higher rate of infertility in people with hepatitis than in those without. Adults are typically able to fight off hepatitis, but children infected with this virus often develop a long-term infection that can have serious consequences, including liver cancer and cirrhosis of the liver.

HIV

Human immunodeficiency virus (HIV) is, of course, the virus that can lead to acquired immunodeficiency syndrome (AIDS). There is no cure for either condition, though treatment can control the virus and allow people with HIV to lead long, healthy lives. HIV can impact male fertility in a few ways. First, because it lowers the body’s immunity, it can make a man vulnerable to other STIs that cause fertility issues. There is also research indicating that HIV causes a loss of the cells that develop into sperm, and can cause hypogonadism and low testosterone. The good news is that there are assisted reproduction options to allow people who are HIV positive to successfully and safely have children.

Trust Center for Vasectomy Reversal with Your Fertility

At Center for Vasectomy Reversal, we are committed to men’s health. We pride ourselves on helping men improve their fertility through uncompromising, concierge-level patient care. Under the direction of Dr. Joshua Green, our team provides state-of-the-art treatment for men who need a reversal of their vasectomy or have other fertility concerns. To learn more about the work we do or our discounts for active duty military and veterans, contact us through our website or call 941-894-6428.