Why Your Partner is Always Tired During Pregnancy

Is Your Pregnant Partner Always Exhausted?

During the first trimester, your partner can hardly keep her eyes open. The second trimester is better, but when the third trimester hits, you notice she’s right back to being tired all the time. What’s up with that? What is it about pregnancy that causes women to be so fatigued?

What Causes Fatigue During the First Trimester?

It is common for a woman to feel fatigued, or even exhausted in the beginning of a pregnancy. She might feel like she can’t get up in the morning, feel sluggish during the day, and be eager for bed in the evening. This is a sign of early pregnancy, and it can happen as early as one week after conception. The truth is that pregnancy is hard work, even from the very beginning, because the woman’s body is building a baby! Estrogen and progesterone increase, and these hormones act as a natural sedative. Additionally, the lower blood pressure and blood sugar, combined with increased blood flow, can cause fatigue. In the first trimester, a lot of energy goes into building the placenta, and if the woman has morning sickness, she may be even more exhausted. The good news is that, as the body adjusts to the increased hormones and finishes the task of creating the placenta, her energy will return during the second trimester.

Why is Your Partner So Tired During the Third Trimester?

Just when it seems like she’s bounced back, the third trimester hits and she’s wiped out again. Why does the fatigue return towards the end of the pregnancy? Well, for one thing, she’s carrying around the extra weight of the pregnancy. It’s probably hard for her to sleep, she may be suffering heartburn, her back is sore, and the stress and anxiety of impending motherhood can be exhausting. Most of the time, this fatigue is not harmful, but if it becomes unmanageable, she should talk to her doctor to rule out other conditions. Problems with the thyroid, gestational diabetes, and anemia can all take a toll, and some women experience prenatal depression. In rare cases, pregnant women develop chronic fatigue syndrome, particularly if they have suffered from hyperemesis gravidarum, a severe form of morning sickness. The doctor can offer solutions to help manage any additional issues she’s experiencing.

How Can You Help?

While the doctor can help manage underlying conditions, most fatigue during pregnancy is just a fact of life. You can help your partner through it by offering extra support and encouraging her to make a few changes to her routine.

• Take on some extra chores. She’s probably feeling pressured to get everything ready for the baby, but she needs to take it easy right now. Ask what you can do to help or, better yet, just notice what needs to be done and do it.
• Encourage her to rest. Any extra sleep she can get, including an earlier bedtime and naps during the day, if she can manage it, will be beneficial. Do everything you can to facilitate.
• Get your kids involved. If you have older children, help them take responsibility for more tasks around the house. Let them know that their mom needs rest. If you have small children, encourage her to nap when they do.
• Take a walk with her. Counterintuitive though it may seem, exercise can help combat pregnancy fatigue. It’s also good for her body and for the baby, and if you engage in some light exercise with her, it can help strengthen your bond as you prepare to welcome a new family member.
• Prepare nutritious food. A diet full of nutrient-dense food will help improve her energy levels, and you can help by making her some healthy snacks to eat during the day. Peanut butter on wheat toast, berries in Greek yogurt, and other snacks that combine protein and complex carbs can provide long-lasting energy, and eating little meals throughout the day can help with digestive issues like heartburn.
• Pamper her a little bit. Give her a massage, or spring for a professional pregnancy massage. Give her space to relax and read or soak in a warm bath. Do whatever you can to spoil her a little bit while she’s carrying new life in her body.

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