Rules for Becoming an Older Dad

In the past, it was expected of individuals to marry and have children at a relatively young age. In today’s society, it’s becoming increasingly more common to delay marriage and/or pregnancy until a couple reaches their 30s, 40s, or even beyond. Thanks to advances in medical techniques, such as vasectomy reversal surgeries to resolve male infertility , becoming an older dad is more possible than ever before. If you and your partner are considering a vasectomy reversal to become first-time parents, you may be feeling a little anxious about what fatherhood will be like and how you’ll define your role as an older dad.

Teach by Example

As an older Dad, you’ve almost certainly learned through your life experiences that a wise man does not pretend to be infallible or to know everything. Rather, a wise man readily admits fault and character flaws. For many years to come, your child will come to you with a wide range of questions, from “Why is the sky blue?” to “Why doesn’t Sarah from English class like me?” You can teach your child valuable lessons by example. When applicable, tell your child that you don’t know the answer, but that you and your child can explore the solution together. Likewise, be willing to accept responsibility for your mistakes and your child will follow in your footsteps.

Embrace Playfulness

When you consult a vasectomy reversal surgeon about the procedure, you might already be thinking of the practical side of parenthood, such as paying for baby clothes and investing in a college tuition fund. However, your child will quickly remind you that being a parent is also about embracing the wonders of the little things in life. Step aside from all the responsibilities in life now and then to marvel at a butterfly with your child or to swing from some monkey bars.

The entire staff at the Center for Vasectomy Reversal is dedicated to addressing each patient’s concerns with respect, compassion, and confidentiality. If you’re wondering whether a vasectomy reversal might be right for you, we invite you to schedule a consultation with our vasectomy reversal surgeon, Dr. Joshua Green. You can connect with our office in Sarasota by calling (941) 961-4581 or you can visit our website to learn more about vasectomy reversals.